I am a Muslim woman, married for 7.5 years. I have had a really great relationship with my husband. He's been good to me. We have 3 children. He's good to the kids as well. Now the problem is that a few days ago, he told me he was gay. He says he's known since he was in his teenages. He says he doesn't intend to act upon his desires, and says that it isn't a choice, he was born that way. Please guide me.